Relational Life
Therapy
Coaching
For Couples and Individuals
Come home to yourself. Come closer to each other.
Available in Berlin and online
For Couples and Individuals
Come home to yourself. Come closer to each other.
Available in Berlin and online
Why I Do This Work
Relationships shape the quality of your life — let’s make yours a source of joy. Connection is everything. We all long for intimacy: the feeling of being seen, held, and valued.
What brings me joy is helping people return to that core: presence, love, and harmony. Together, we untangle old patterns, opening the door to fierce intimacy and a new story of who you are and what you can have.
For Couples
Who Want to Explore More
I provide Relational Life Therapy coaching for couples who want more: more closeness, more understanding, more joy. To love — better than before, better than your parents, better than you ever thought possible.
I help you name what’s missing and what’s needed. Together, we strengthen balance and chemistry, rebuild trust, and create space for intimacy to return.
After our work together, you will feel lighter, centered, and reconnected. You’ll notice a shift into a wiser, more grounded version of yourself, with more clarity and compassion — for yourself and each other.
For Individuals
Who Want a Relationship
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing — willing to look honestly, to grow past what was modeled for you, and to soften the voice that says you’re not enough or too much.
I work with people who long for connection but find themselves stuck in the same patterns. You want depth, but don’t know how to create it — or how to trust it? Together, we explore what gets in the way, uncover the beliefs you inherited, and notice the ways you shrink or overextend.
You learn to let love in and feel at home in yourself, so you can meet another with clarity and strength.
Many discover that it isn’t only relationships that carry old patterns — our sexuality does too. Bringing awareness here opens the door to intimacy, vitality, and a richer connection with life.
For Individuals
Who Want a Relationship
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing — willing to look honestly, to grow past what was modeled for you, and to soften the voice that says you’re not enough or too much.
I work with people who long for connection but find themselves stuck in the same patterns. You want depth, but don’t know how to create it — or how to trust it? Together, we explore what gets in the way, uncover the beliefs you inherited, and notice the ways you shrink or overextend.
You learn to let love in and feel at home in yourself, so you can meet another with clarity and strength.
Many discover that it isn’t only relationships that carry old patterns — our sexuality does too. Bringing awareness here opens the door to intimacy, vitality, and a richer connection with life.
Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
Developed by renowned therapist Terry Real and practiced by thousands of professionals worldwide, RLT helps people move from reactivity into genuine connection. It teaches you to speak your truth without blame, take responsibility without losing your ground, and relate from your strongest, most centered self.
What makes RLT stand out is its work with grandiosity — the protective patterns we carry — and its practice of “taking sides,” ensuring your experience is fully seen and validated. The therapist or coach shows up as a companion on the journey, sometimes sharing their own experiences, creating a space of authenticity and mutual understanding. By bringing hidden dynamics into the light, RLT opens the way to lasting intimacy, respect, and joy.
This work also addresses emotions rooted in patterns passed down through generations, creating space to interrupt what no longer serves.
Sexuality Coaching
Sexuality as a Path to Healing
Sexuality is more than pleasure. It can be a doorway into the hidden landscapes of the body, where unspoken emotions, memories, and longings live. By engaging with these layers, we welcome back parts of ourselves that were once left behind, moving toward a deeper sense of wholeness and aliveness.
In my coaching, I guide individuals and couples who have lost connection or intimacy over time, helping them rediscover desire and joy in their sexual lives.
Through guided breathwork, mindful movement, and energy awareness, you will regain a deeper presence in your body. This can unlock new realms of sexual connection you may never have imagined possible.
Drawing on Taoist and other spiritual traditions, my work supports opening to sensual pleasure and deeper levels of intimacy with yourself and your partner. Sexuality, in this way, becomes not just an act but a journey — a path to reconnect with your body, your emotions, and the richness of life.
About me
I’m Aleksandra — your guide and a fellow traveler on the path back to wholeness and harmony.
Relational skills and conscious sexuality weren’t things I grew up with — I had to seek them out. For years, I struggled in my own relationships and know how painful, confusing, and lonely that can feel. But I didn’t give up.
I’ve walked through difficult times myself, and I know that change is possible. It would be my honor to guide you toward relationships that feel safe, vibrant, and real.
Through more than a decade of exploration, I discovered what truly transforms the way we love and connect. Relational Life Therapy gave me tools to nurture relationships into spaces of deep love and respect. Through Daoist traditions, conscious embodiment, and energy practices, I learned how the body’s signals can open gateways to bliss — and become fuel for presence, authenticity, and a richer way of relating.
Today, I live in a deeply fulfilling, supportive, and joyful relationship — living proof that profound intimacy and love are possible.
Certifications & Experience
Selected training highlights:
- Certified Relational Life Therapy Coach (Terry Real)
- Sex & RLT with Anna Sterk
- Beziehungsdynamische Sexualtherapie — Two-year education in Berlin
- Clinical Training with Esther Perel
- Making Love with Diana Richardson
- De-Armouring and Whole Body Orgasm with Andrew Barnes
- Certified Sexological Bodyworker (CSB)
- Joe Dispenza, Internal Family Systems, Vortex Healing, Ancestral Medicine, and more
Sessions & Investment
Each session is a space for truth, release, and reconnection. Whether you’re seeking clarity, emotional healing, or deeper intimacy, we move at the pace that is right for you. Sessions are offered in Berlin or online. Evening (after 19:00) and weekend sessions are priced 15% higher — ideal for parents or anyone whose daytime is already full.
Connection Reset - 1.5h
Online
A space to untangle relational blocks, understand recurring patterns, and reconnect.
150 €
daytime
177 €
evening/weekend
Relational Joy - 2h
in person
Focus on deep inner work, softening relational patterns, and reinforcing your wise adult behavior.
200 €
daytime
230 €
evening/weekend
*On invitation, sessions may also include gentle energy or bodywork to deepen integration — please enquire if interested.
Intensives
Fierce Intimacy – RLT Couples Intensive
Berlin | 2 days, 4–6 hours/day
A weekend to nourish love, bring clarity, and strengthen what matters most. Ideal for couples ready for real transformation.
This immersive experience offers focused attention that weekly sessions often can’t match. Over two days, we move through the full arc of RLT: compassionate truth-telling, exploring family-of-origin patterns, and integrating practical skills to sustain lasting change.
1115 €
*Accommodation and food not included
Sexual Intimacy Intensive
Berlin | 2 days, 6 hours/day
A guided retreat to explore new dimensions of love, intimacy, and shared pleasure. Slow down, reconnect, and open to greater depth in your sexual relationship.
Through gentle body-based practices, energy awareness, and honest emotional dialogue, you’ll open the way to renewed trust, authentic pleasure, and a more vibrant connection.
Day 1 – Dissolving Blocks
• Morning: Release old habits and patterns around sex
• Afternoon: Develop body awareness and integrate gentle bodywork
Day 2 – Sensual Awareness
• Morning: Deep release work, opening to pleasure and receiving
• Afternoon: Integration, practical guidance, and tailored practices
You’ll leave with a renewed sense of connection and a clear path forward — fresh, grounded, and realistic.
1380 €
Ready to Begin?
Let’s meet love where it lives — in your story, your body, and your next courageous step.
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Testimonials
The work with Aleks is open, fearless, and loving. It requires courage from everyone involved, but in return, it gives you a wonderful feeling of seeing over the crest of problems that initially seemed insurmountable.
Working with Aleks often means facing difficult truths. The process challenged me, yet every step was necessary for real change. She speaks the truth with care, helping you see yourself clearly while feeling understood and respected.
I never imagined I could open so fully to receiving pleasure. Aleks created a space where I felt completely safe, understood, and welcomed. Her intuition and sensitivity to my emotional landscape made every step feel just right. The intensive allowed me to release old stories, feel emotionally lighter, and reconnect with my body — it was like beginning my sexual life anew.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Is everything confidential?
What if my partner isn’t sure about coming?
Do we need to be in crisis to come to coaching?
Not at all. Many come simply to go deeper, stay connected, or raise the standard for what love can feel like.